Beyond Prey & Predator
“Mindfulness”
By The Nude Horse
(Equine Epidemiologist)
Understanding the natural position horses have in the complex animal kingdom helps us enter into a very unique partnership with an animal of prey
with humans as potential predators.
Horses are in-between fully domesticated ‘pets’ like dogs and cats that
live in our homes, yet they are unlike agricultural animals kept for
consumption and maintained at arm’s length.
Horses offer a glimpse into the wild world, yet are curious and willing
enough to allow us to train and tame them.
To train a flight & fright based animal in a prey/predator
relationship requires a handler to be always ‘mindfully in the moment’ when
with a horse.
Horses have been surviving in the wild successfully based on their
strong cooperative social structure, so we need to learn how to enter this
social structure and provide calmness, fairness, be an intelligent leader to
protect them and secure their trust in us enough for their perceived survival. Becoming these things to your horse allows
them to seek us for comfort in situations that would otherwise be fearful and
trigger the flight & fright responses –these unwelcomed responses are often
exhibited at shows, loading onto floats, riding in new locations and tackling
new tasks asked from the handler.
Horses live in the moment, are large, powerful and thus potentially
dangerous. These days many horse
trainers are becoming aware of the importance of being ‘mindful’. They do exercises based on breathing,
relaxation and body awareness. They are
becoming non-confrontational in their methods (coined ‘natural horsemanship’ by
some) working with an understanding of the horse ethology, as opposed to old
school methods of domination.
How is ‘mindfulness’ achieved?
Try adjusting your breathing to the pace of your horse; switch off the
world around you (especially your mobile phone). Aim to connect with your horse with your eyes and your breath, look with him, not at him; a predator
will stare at their prey.
Spending time with your horse when unable to concentrate can be called
having a ‘monkey mind’. Without
concentration you begin to let wandering and disjointed thoughts occupy your
mind, perhaps rushing through activities, being unaware of the tension the
horse or yourself may be feeling. Your
horse may likely respond inappropriately, basing their decisions on past
experiences, fear or even past trauma (returning to a state of flight or
fright), they are unable to tap into your comfort for reassurance.
By contrast, have you seen a ‘mindful’ person enter the paddock and
their horse comes up eagerly to greet them?
There is a visible connection between both the horse’s eye and that of
their handler; they both exude calmness, a relaxed state of mind a mutual trust
between them.
One might start with spending time learning to keep their attention
focussed over a sustained period of time through relaxation techniques, this in
turn serves to develop concentration, calmness, flexibility in controlling ones
thoughts and ultimately leads to a state of being able to be ‘connected or
mindful’ to the moment.
Entering the paddock with no purpose other than to sit and observe or
play with your horse, allows new skills sets to develop (no halters or leads
just a carrot or apple). Try to renew
the relationship through fresh eyes. Allow your horse to see you as a friend
rather than a ‘work’ only companion.
Play breeds curiosity – a behaviour sadly ‘trained out’ of many horses,
they switch off and become disconnected.
It makes sense that awareness of our body language and the capacity to
monitor one’s behaviours and emotions is necessary to enable this unique prey/predator
partnership to flourish.
An equine dentist says “I used to be focused on getting as many horses
in a barn done as I could. Now I am
focused on getting as many horses as possible mindful, relaxed and telling me
what they need.
I want the horse to trust and to like me.” He further states that he could “feel” the
horse’s mouth if he just slowed down and took time to be present with them.
When trying to work mindfully with a horse it’s helpful to have a clear
schedule. In other word don’t work your
horse when you have to rush or are mentally or emotionally distracted. This breaks down the mindful partnership and
the horse resorts to its natural flight or fight responses.
The same goes for not insisting on working your horse when he/she is not
mentally or emotionally fit to do so.
Like humans they can be affected by stress, hormones, herd dynamic
changes and wellness issues. Often the hardest
but most important thing you can do it ‘walk away’ calmly and try again another
time or day.
Working mindfully
with your horse can start with these simple steps created by B.S., M.A. Mary Ann C. Simonds in her article “Mindfulness With Horses”
·
Look
“with” not “at” horses (predators lock eyes on their prey).
·
Empty
your mind and centre your mind to be present.
·
Synchronize
your breath with your horse’s breath.
·
Use
calming signals such as eye blinking to connect with your horse.
·
Slow
your brain wave down from Beta to Alpha frequencies.
·
Turn
off your cell phone and bring your attention into the moment.
·
Spend
time just “being” with your horse, like eating, sleeping and play.
·
Use
music to relax and connect you and your horse while riding.
·
Be
happy and friendly when in your horse’s presence.
·
Spend
time helping your horse feel good and release tension through hands-on massage.
·
Use
relaxation techniques such as aromatherapy, breathing, flower essences for you
and your horse.*
*http://holistichorse.com/in-the-field/minfulness-with-horses/
Is
there reason to believe being mindful makes any difference?
Two interesting cases studies conducted with young
person’s considered at risk due to their psychosocial disadvantages and
backgrounds demonstrate how practising ‘mindfulness’ enabled a difficult
situation to be corrected in both cases, with the horse’s acceptance.
“Frey’s therapist had relayed Freya would often put
herself at risk with her peers and engage in risky behaviours outside the
residential home. Once up on the mare
named Ruby however, Frey’s distracted behaviour appeared to wane a little and
she became quieter in her body language and manner, seeming to suddenly realise
she was perhaps vulnerable on top of the horse.
This appeared to enable her to listen to and take instruction more readily
and we took some opportunity to introduce her to some ‘invisible riding’
techniques. In the round pen we
initially led Freya around on Ruby, the mare seemed to understand that she
needed to remain extra attentive and alert today, perhaps picking up on Frey’s
emotional and physical state. We started
off with some simple stretching exercises in order to help Freya find her
balance, tune in to the different parts of her body and gain some more
confidence, as well as being fun.Next we introduced some simple ‘body scan’ exercises where Freya concentrated on each part of her body in turn, starting with relaxing her feet, moving up her body until she relaxed her shoulders and neck. In order to make this more fun and engaging I demonstrated these walking next to Freya, who copied the exercises riding on Ruby’s back. Once Freya had found her balance and was more relaxed we suggested she closed her eyes and ride Ruby with her eyes shut in order to really tune into Ruby’s movement. This is not as easy as it may appear but it is a really useful exercise for refining balance and for following the movement of the horse. Together we demonstrated to Freya how she could slow her breathing down, and breathe in and out in order to influence Ruby’s pace, and learn how to bring her to a halt and to walk on again just by the smallest body movement and breathing. This exercise takes a lot of sustained concentration and body awareness, together with real intention; it will not work unless you are completely committed and mindfully embodied. After a few attempts we knew Freya began to get a sense of this feeling as she gained more ability in co-ordinating her body language together with her breathing and concentration. In turn Frey’s confidence in her newly found body awareness grew and Ruby responded accordingly, causing Frey to exclaim “look she slows down when I’m just thinking it now”. Later as we finished the session Freya stretched down from Ruby’s back to hug her around the neck beaming it’s like she can read my mind”.”
The second one is “Cinderella approached Duchess in
a rather dominant, almost aggressive manner which caused the mare to walk
purposefully away from her, refusing to be caught. Cinderella immediately became angry and
frustrated walking off throwing the head collar down exclaiming “stubborn
cow”. I sat down next to her and to her
surprise it seemed I praised her for her actions telling her that sitting down
and not chasing Duchess was in fact a very good strategy and one of the tactics
I may try with a horse who didn’t want to be caught. I suggested we sit in the field and relax for
awhile and try to just observe Duchess and the horses without necessarily
trying to catch them, but at the same time bring some awareness as to how she
felt Duchess may be feeling. After sitting quietly for quite a long time with
only the sounds of birds and the wind in the trees in the background and with
Cinderella appearing to be ignoring me she finally said ‘she probably doesn’t
want to leave the others and suppose she doesn’t know me yet”. I asked Cinderella what different approaches
may help Duchess to want to be caught and she replied “well probably getting to
know me a bit more first as she knows she can trust me.” We followed this with a short discussion
about horse’s body language and whether Cinderella could see if there were any
different approaches she could try to help Duchess learn to trust her. With this Cinderella agreed to try
approaching Duchess together with me in a slower more controlled and less
aggressive manner and did then succeed in carefully putting the head collar
on. The other mare Ruby then followed us
into the yard where Cinderella put the head collar on her too without a problem,
her body language reflecting a much more gentle approach towards the horses who
responded accordingly.”#
#www.psychosocial.com/IJPR_17/Horses_and_Mindfulness_Burgon.html
What if still
your horse is still behaving nervously and seems ill tempered after practising ‘mindful’
techniques?
Some horses may indeed be additionally
suffering from dietary deficiencies, pain or severe trauma. Ask your vet to rule out any illness, pain
or gastric ulcer issues, along with testing for dietary deficiencies.
Supplementing
with nutrients that have been demonstrated to reduce symptoms of anxiety and stress
hormones, along with supporting normal cognitive functions that assist building
the brain’s chemical messengers called neurotransmitters can be
beneficial. Caution must be exercised not overloading with nutrients such as
high quantities of magnesium for example whereby ‘slurred’ behaviours can
potentially endanger the safety of you and your horse. Magnesium can throw off absorption of other
vital nutrients leading to other health issues. Look for a balanced blend of amino acids,
vitamin B’s (not with Vit B12 in combination as it blocks out the functions of
the other B’s), small amounts of magnesium and select beneficial plant
extracts.
Getting dietary support right and working on a mindful
attitude can lead to better mental performance and a more positive response to
stressful situation whether at work or play.
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Excellent follow up reading by horse trainer Mark
Rashid is recommended through his many books. Rashid’s philosophy
involves understanding the horse’s point of view and solving difficult problems
with communication rather than force. His methology emphasises the relationship
between horse and the rider as a partnership, in which the horse willingly
takes direction from the rider, rather than a dominant rider directing a
submissive horse.
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